Failed Attempts at Being You
I keep encountering this quote and keep liking it, so here it is:
"The world in which you were born is just one model of reality.
Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit." --Wade Davis
I'm not sure I have much more to add, beyond some related queries to chew on:
- In what ways do I assume that my model of reality is everyone else's model of reality?
- When do I hold other people and other cultures to a standard of success that is defined by becoming or being me?
- What threatens me about people and cultures that have different goals and hopes than I do?
- How can my sense of spirit and life be nurtured by appreciating other (sometimes radically different) manifestations of spirit and life?
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I think it's worth asking questions from the other side, particularly when you are in an intellectual environment where there is a push towards this general sentiment.
I might ask: Across the wide divide of our individual experiences, how can I try to understand other people's models of reality?
Or: If my acceptance of another person's model of reality is not matched in kind, how do I respond constructively to that?
Or: How can I find a compromise between accepting the reality of other people's models of reality, and disagreeing with the actionable conclusions that may arise from those differences? (Like: I get it that some people think homosexuality is a sin, but that doesn't mean I'm okay with it)
Or: Does the degree to which I accept other people's models as valid represent an underlying bias? (For instance a sentiment that it's fine that some isolated culture thinks witchcraft is real, but it's not so okay when a more wordly culture feels women should be in a subjugated role)